< Don't ever return to the scene of the crime >
2003-08-04Nothing much happening over here except a friend (who shall remain nameless) has blown me off AGAIN to go hang out with an ex-boyfriend (who has done her wrong in the past) even though she has a great present boyf. *sigh* It's not my business so I am neither going to mention names or hint at who it is but it's probably gonna all end in tears.
I'm not gonna be a hypocrite, I mean i have been there before (except for having a nice boyf when going back) but who hasn't gone back to some dumbass ex-boyfriend fooling yourself into thinking things-have-changed-he'll-be-different. That experience has told me that 99% of the time he hasn't changed, but you ignore that cause of all the good memories that come flooding back while the bad ones are pushed aside. Well remember this: THERE WAS A REASON YOU TWO BROKE UP. IF IT WAS AS GOOD AS YOU REMEMBER YOU WOULD STILL BE TOGETHER.
I'm not relationship expert, I've made my fair share (and more!) of mistakes. I have learned from those mistakes though. It may have hurt like a bitch at the time, but hey don't all the most valuable lessons in life?
I know that this has gone into a rant, but I just get frustrated watching my friend make the same mistakes over and over without seeming to learn anything. It's not spite that makes me write this but fear. I am scared she will end up very very hurt. I am scared she will make these mistakes over and over again all through her life because she never learned.
Maybe I am just somebody who should mind my own business.
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